The most returned Christmas gifts

It's nearly universally understood that apparel is taken back most frequently. However, electronics may be catching up.

Hate to be the one to tell you this, but someone on your Christmas list is going to return your gift to the store. And you may never know about it. A poll by Western Union last year said 75% of Americans have lied about liking a gift they did not.

 

Want to increase the chances that your carefully chosen gift will not be returned? Don't buy the most returned gift. Hands down, it's clothes and other apparel. It doesn't fit, the color is not right, it does make your butt look big, or it's just downright ugly.

 

There are other most returned gifts to avoid.

 

An oft-quoted report from Pr-inside.com about a survey conducted for Kohl's in 2008 found that these gifts were identified by respondents as most likely to be returned:

  • Clothing, 74%.
  • Items for the home, 11%.
  • Beauty or fragrance, 8%.
  • Electronics, 5%.
  • Jewelry or watches, 2%.

Those results were more or less supported by a January 2011 survey by MarketTools:

  • Clothing and shoes, mentioned by 62% of respondents.
  • Toys, games and hobbies, 16%.
  • Consumer electronics, 14%.
  • Kitchen and bath, 13%.
  • Beauty and cosmetics, 10%.
  • Jewelry and watches, 10%.

Other evidence suggests that electronics are moving quickly up the list of undesirables. Accenture says:

Customers returning electronics products will cost U.S. consumer electronics retailers and manufacturers nearly $17 billion this year, an increase of 21 percent since 2007. . . . These costs include receiving, assessing, repairing, reboxing, restocking and reselling returned products.

The return rate for electronics is between 11% and 20%. Although it's unclear why most are taken back, the vast majority are not defective.


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While unhappy recipients generally keep their disappointment close to the vest, one in five U.S. adults surveyed confessed to Consumer Reports they got a gift they didn't like. Here's what they did:

Eighteen percent donated it to charity; 15 percent re-gifted it to an unsuspecting family member, friend, or coworker; 11 percent returned the item to the retailer for a refund or merchandise credit, the same percentage . . . elected to toss the gift in the trash. Six percent tried to resell their lousy gifts.

Wait. It gets worse. Consumer Reports also says:

Some irked recipients chose a more brazen response. Two percent of those surveyed actually confronted the original giver to return an unwanted present. Another 2 percent retaliated with ridicule -- posting photos of the cringe-worthy item on the Internet.

Actually, return of gifts has already begun this year, and a relatively high rate of returns is expected. So keep these two important rules in mind:

  • If you're the giver, please DO include a gift receipt in the box. Hopefully the retailer won't pull a fast one and give the returner a post-holiday sale price, rather than cash or credit for the price you paid.
  • If you realize a present is not what you want, DO NOT open the manufacturer's box it came in, particularly if it's something electronic. The store may charge a restocking fee or not accept the return at all if it's been opened.

Should you be embarrassed about taking it back? Apparently not, but you still are, according to a American Express survey:

Most consumers say they are not concerned by the prospect of a friend or family member returning a gift. While more than half of holiday gift givers (56%) don't care, most recipients are still unlikely to confess to a loved one that their gift was returned to the store (59%).

So what's really the worst gift you can give? According to TopTenz.net, it's a gift that can't be taken back to the store. "Never, never, never give the gift that can't be returned," Lee Standberry wrote. "We live in the age of self-indulgence -- it's sad but, nevertheless, true."

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62Comments
Dec 24, 2011 12:28AM
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Gift cards people... let them buy what THEY want. The old saying should be preferred gifts are like "opinions" everyone's got one. Who cares about the impersonal crap. As long as you show you cared enough to purchase somone a gift card to a store you think they like then let them find something for themselves it is better than nothing. I love getting gift cards.
Dec 23, 2011 11:18PM
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give cash!!!!!!!! everybody likes cash...and victorias secret gift cards!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dec 23, 2011 9:28PM
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A hat With mistletoe might give your brother inlaw 2 shiners
Dec 23, 2011 9:00PM
Dec 23, 2011 8:24PM
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Is there any survey done on 10 MOST kept Christmas gifts? 


Dec 23, 2011 8:24PM
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i really think the best gift you can give some one is a very though full card and don't let the card speak for you write something from the hart tell the person how you feel and inside the card you slip in a american express gift card so your love one can buy a little something they like and have a merry christmas. 
Dec 23, 2011 6:43PM
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 I give magazines I know the family likes, such as National Geographic, Smithsonian, Or CAT FANCY< DOG FANCY if they like pets, I also give to charity in their name~~~but make sure it is one they like... homemade candy is given to homeless shelters, and police and fire depts.  I have been asked to give candy more often. 
Dec 23, 2011 6:41PM
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give a gift that can't be returned.
give a gift that keeps on giving.

Herpes!

Dec 23, 2011 6:38PM
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If you want to be sure your gifts are not returned, don't give any.  Just give your affection, love, or time.  Invite friends over for dinner, or bake them cookies.  Gift giving is good for the economy, but bad for friendships.
Dec 23, 2011 6:30PM
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They forgot the most important reason of all.

 

NEED THE CASH!

 

Many people receive gifts from relatives out of town that don't know the person is in dyer need of money. The gifts are returned not out of spite or dislike, but for survival.

Dec 23, 2011 5:21PM
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Gifts are that! So if you like them is OK, if you don't like them return it, I don't see what's the big deal, Christmas in the US is a big business any way...


Dec 23, 2011 5:17PM
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Buy your friend a fine bottle of wine a couple of beautiful new wine glasses Guaranteed will not be returned Merry Christmas
I've done this!  It works for Xmas, Wedding gifts, birthdays, whatever.  As long as you know that they do indeed indulge.  I usually buy a mid-priced bottle of champagne. and a pair of nice glasses.  Even if it's not the persons chosen pattern it seems to be well received.  I've been told the elegant glassware comes out every anniversary, birthday etc for that intimate celebration.  Now that we make a killer homebrew beer, that will be our gift of choice, along with a couple of nice-looking steins...
Dec 23, 2011 5:13PM
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I agree with the posters that wrote that the gifts should be for the kids - under 18.  When you start giving gifts to adults, that's when the pressure really builds and the thoughtfulness tends to go away.  My husband's family has turned  into a gift card exchange - really?  How personal is this?  Why can't we just all keep our $25.00?  I love all the other aspects of the holidays - being together, sharing memories, eating good food, etc.  I suggested one year that we buy a goat and rice for a family in Africa - not one of them even considered it .  You really want that $25.00 gift card that much?   Seriously?  I have never returned a gift, but I have regifted or donated.  I liked the one guys post who said, "Why would I stand in line to return a gift I didn't pay for?"  True, true.  Homemade cookies - no one returns those and you don't have to store it after the holidays.  
Dec 23, 2011 4:01PM
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What in heck is it with the light gray print on white. You can't read it - it's really hard on the eyes, and everyone is doing it for some insane reason.
Dec 23, 2011 3:54PM
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Wow!   Six percent throw it in the trash and two percent throw it at the giver.- we really are becoming a spoiled and ungrateful bunch. That would be the last gift that person ever received from me. No excuse ever for behaving that way, just keep quiet and pass it along to someone who will appreciate it or donate it to the less fortunate. 
Dec 23, 2011 3:39PM
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Of course we lie.  Anytime we are being politically correct we are lieing. Can you imagine what it would be like if we couldn't lie?  We ask question we really don't want the answer to such as "does this make me look fat?"  Reword it to "does this make me look too skinny?"  I don't return things.  I'm not standing in a line for an hour to return something I didn't pay for and don't want.  Perhaps that is why I got a closet full of things I don't want.  We give gifts that we like not necessarily what we think the other person would like. We want to dress our wives/husbands like we want them to look.  We don't think about the fact that the reason they don't have "one of these" is that they don't want "one of these."
Dec 23, 2011 2:54PM
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When my adult children ask me what I want for Christmas, it's always the same phrase year after year.  A happy, healthy family......it has become a joke to them now cuz every year they ask me and every year I say the same thing...at my job they are always wanting to have a big Christmas party and bring presents.  fortunately this year we adopted a family for Christmas that otherwise wouldn't have been able to afford it.  that's the spirit of Christmas if you ask me.  serve others.  that's what Jesus is all about
Dec 23, 2011 1:56PM
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Christmas = spirit

Rather than buying a bunch of "junk"; spend time at ahomeless shelter, nursing home or animal shelter.  Donate time and unwanted items to those folks - I don't know about you, but the indigent and incapable appreciate these things much more than my family does.

Poster insain 1 - I want to join your family - you have the spirit!

I hear people all of the time, so disrespectful and unappreciative.  My husband and I were at rock bottom at one point in the early 2000's and gave the kids these really cool GI Joe action figures that had all kinds of accessories, like paratroopers, tanks, etc and were laughed at because they weren't GI Joe 'brand'.  Bought other family members electronics and was scoffed at for that as well.  So, at this point, we would rather donate our time and resources to a charitable cause than to spend time with people who are too material, superficial, and unappreciative to celebrate what Yule is all about.  Yep, keep living that dream......I think more people will wake up (hopefully).

Happy Holidays to all

Dec 23, 2011 8:56AM
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I make Rum Balls and give them away to my close friends,  along with Sour Cream Pound cakes, something called Reindeer Poop, homemade dog biscuits for pet gifts and Christmas Cookies (the cookies go my local food bank) . 

There are also some folks l know of that don't have a lot, I give them a pair of new socks, a small bottle of booze and $5.00. I also gave a friend some wood for their heat source.  No returns or re-gifting there either.

Only once did one of my friends not like my Rum Balls, he said later he had just quit drinking so he will get a pair of socks from now on or dry cookies.

No man I know of ever returned or refused a clean new pair of socks.  For my Partners Mom I gave her nuts,  she loves nuts so I know they will not be returned either. Other friends got local jellies those folks live in another State,  they can't get those type of jellies in their home State. 

Fruit Cake has NEVER has past these lips and I wouldn't give that to my worst enemy....Maybe O'nuttma cause he is a Fruit Cake. (warning political jab)

I believe in giving practical gifts and not something that will just gather dust in a shelf.

 

Merry Christmas and a Very Happy New Year to all and Good Night Dick!!!!!!! 

Dec 23, 2011 7:43AM
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I miss my child. This is our first Christmas away from each other. Even if one year he left on Christmas with the church group to go to Gatlinburg, TN. Now he is grown, in Charlotte, NC and alone. So here's the deal. If you live in Charlotte, NC or even close, go hand a homeless person either some money for a warm bath, and a nice place to sleep, or take those unwanted Christmas clothes or blanket thingies that you don't like, wrapped them and then give those people in the park Christmas, There are lots of homeless people who haven't had anyone to give them Christmas in years. I bet some of you even know how to get them off the street for good. It isn't fun, according to my son to have to stay in shelters. Make a difference. Oh and if you are one of the lucky people who had the experience to see the young man last summer and early fall who was dressed weird carrying  a cedar cross from Southern Mississippi to Washington, DC, you now know that he is my son, You all have a BLESSED MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A SAFE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR.
Dec 23, 2011 7:19AM
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So I guess not giving a gift is out of the question.
Dec 23, 2011 6:11AM
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Nothing better on Xmas than DRINKS!!!
Dec 23, 2011 3:22AM
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I love Christmas but hate the presents and the shopping. Why do people feel the need to buy everyone they ever met cheap, tacky junk that they themselves would not want? I've asked and been told that "It's not the gift. It's the thought that counts." Well most of these gifts don't look like any thought was put into them beyond, "I gotta hurry and get that person something so I can check them off my list." I don't want moldy boxed candy from last year, or poorly painted Hummel knock offs, or a plastic fish that used to sing but now just twitches and croaks like it's dying. I don't want a sequin leotard that has obviously been regifted over and over since the 70's. (Yes, I have received all of the above and all of the above went into the trash.) I would rather get nothing more than Christmas greetings as long as the sentiment is honest. I like the decorations and parties and carols but not all the senseless junk swapping.
Dec 23, 2011 3:19AM
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For a great last minute gift, buy the new "Blues Land" album by Whiskers Kitchen on iTunes... It will get your feet moving!  It's food for the soul!
Dec 22, 2011 2:42AM
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Do people really post their displeasure with a gift online?  Sounds a little extreme to turn something like gift giving or an unwanted gift into a public flogging of sorts.  Why go to all that trouble just because you're unhappy with somebody's gift to you?  Sounds immature to me. 
Dec 21, 2011 11:05PM
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Another gift to take back is "Burlesque."  Ugh!
Dec 21, 2011 10:29PM
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Well, they can't return homemade gifts and those are the kind that truly show thoughtfulness. Nothing says Merry Christmas like a nice basket of baked goods! For adults, breads and healthy muffins might be preferable to treats. For a grandmother, perhaps a photo album of the grand kids. If you choose to spend, an event or service is a good choice. Just make sure there is flexibility on when it can be used. 
Dec 21, 2011 10:09PM
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My siblings and I weren't allowed to return gifts when we were kids because our parents said it was rude.  They'd say it's not about what you want to receive but what the giver wants you to receive.  To this day I seldom return a gift and my wife thinks it's crazy.

Dec 21, 2011 9:55PM
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In our family, Christmas presents are for children under 18. We don't go crazy buying gifts for aunts and adult brothers and sisters.  Gifts to adults, if we wish to give them, tend to be gifts of time, effort or assistance.  I am also a crafter and knitter, but I don't give those gifts for Chritmas - it gets too crazy trying to  make everything of similar effort, time and cost for each person in time for the holiday.  If I see some yarn that matches my sister's new coat - I make it for her because I want to - not because she's expecting it for some holiday. (and if it takes me 6 months to make it, then I'm not on a holiday deadline) 

 

What is a 'Gift' supposed to represent anyway?  I think it's supposed to represent our affection and regard for the recipient.  So what better gift is there than one of  time and effort?

 

My Mom is 87 - she's been 'downsizing' her 'stuff' for years and repeatedly says she doesn't want any more 'things'.  She's right - for years we tried to buy her gifts, but I could see them just sit around and eventually  end up in my garage sales or given away. All of us 'kids' are adults with grown kids now; because I live closest to Mom, I help her maintain her home, play hours and hours of Scrabble and Canasta with her, and go shopping with her.  My brother lives an hour away - he makes sure she has transportation to all the major family events and helps with major maintenance of her home - like installing a new AC unit and new hot water heater.  He also manages her retirement funds now that Daddy is gone, so she can live comfortably. My sister lives across the country, and has only be able to come visit occasionally - but she calls Mom a couple of times a week, sends her funny little care packages and lap quilts she makes ( at 87, mom is always cold!).

Mom says these 'gifts' are more priceless to her than anything ever bought in a store.

Dec 21, 2011 9:34PM
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The best gift is a consumable gift.  Give a pair of tickets to anything the receiver likes.  Baseball, hockey, theater, movies, roller rin, museums.  You get the idea.  Anything that gives them a memory and doesn't need to be dusted, stored or regifted. 
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